Thursday, June 21, 2012

The same would be helpful


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LASER IMPREZ 
6:30 PM (3 hours ago)
to me
Thanks Alokji for your forward which is very much in time for my daughter’s loan which has been already granted by cradila-hdfc.
The same  would be helpful for getting some interest concession.

A Jain

From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: Thursday, June 21, 2012 6:34 AM
To: undisclosed-recipients:
Subject: JITO Education Project






Tuesday, June 19, 2012

NICE SUGGESTION ON FATHERS DAY



nirmal jain  imaage.com@gmail.com
Jun 18 (1 day ago)
to me
JAI JINENDRA

NICE TO SEE PHUPHAJI  GIVE MY REGARDS(NICE SUGGESTION ON FATHERS DAY)
NIRMAL JAIN

On Sun, Jun 17, 2012 at 8:40 PM, Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com> wrote:
To most Fathers day or any such day means give Archie's costly card and forget him for rest of the 364 days. But here is my sister who called ailing mother to her place and gave her much needed change and rest to her regular caregivers. Similarly whether it is Fathers day or not when she is with us she indulges and enjoyes care-giving to father. In these photos you will find father ( a very angry old man) totally cool and enjoying oil massage on his legs. Is this a true celebration of Fathers day or leaving a message on Facebook ( which parents do not access is) ????

And touch has it's own miracle healing power to mind and body both. A touch ( sparsh) , warmth, Care or Massage , ( be it leg or head  or a hand ) or just playfully run your fingers on your ailing ( or even healthy ) family member or friend makes him heal faster, makes him feel secured, he feels loved and wanted. 

When my brother in law was in third stage of Cancer and was in Breach Candy Hospital the sisters their will shake hands with him ( 30 years back it was not so common) , will take hand in hand and give him walk etc. those moments I am sure gave him some moments worth living and rejuvenated him. 

Last month I broke small finger of my right leg. From doctor to my own people have cared little to just give it a touch ( feeling of care and love) . I know it is a small accident so I went alone for X ray and getting buddy strapping done ( which I did on my own too till I could go to orthopedic surgeon) . So nothing great about this small accident or treatment. But somewhere still I miss the sahalana ( softly running hand on hurt/ wounded place)  of my mother on this part of my injured feet. 

I also miss my grand father who would even at his late of 90's would come to my bedroom and at regular intervals and pour love and care whenever I was in fever. 

Do care to give premal hug ( warm and loving hug), do care to touch, massage ( not often or regularly but atleast some time) , do give snehal (loving)  togetherness to those ailing , senior citizens and near and dear ones besides cards or flowers.




Love and touch heals........

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Blessed are the parents, who get son like you



Ashok Jain 
10:04 PM (10 hours ago)
to me
Dear alokji,

I always knew, you are very kind & polite to all and sundry. Perhaps that's one of the reason of you facing some unreasonable people in life.

This letter has deeply touched me. Thanks for sharing. Blessed are the parents, who get son like you. I'm proud of you as a friend.

Best wishes

Ashok 

Sent from my iPad

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....Pl. send ur views on this mail‏


  • Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....Pl. send ur views on this mail‏


11-07-2010
To Alok, Ashok Jain, arun.k.jain@ril.com
Alok bhai,

Nice article and well written. And you have managed to give a reference to context 
as well to co-ownership property owned by group of brothers. 
So you have started it again. If there is any hint on us (and I think there is…), 
then let’s start the dialogue again, although we know we have discussed this
 several times . Let’s be direct rather than going around the bush. 
No point in writing articles expressing words of wisdom (which you are 
quite capable of and we know it well that you are a good orator and writer),
 which people sometimes will not pay much attention to. 
We must try to close the deal and we all believe in a common good that is
 ‘earlier the better’. Pls  speak what’s there in your mind, now that you are 
relatively free on the home front
 (that’s my belief and I can be wrong…..)    

Thanks & Best Regards,

Akhil Jain
Director
Structured Trade Finance (Corporate Finance) , MENA Region





From: resortstimeshare-India@yahoogroups.com [mailto:resortstimeshare-India@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of Mr Alok Tholiya
Sent: Friday, July 09, 2010 2:58 PM
To: Alok Tholiya Main
Subject: [resortstimeshare-India] Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....
Pl. send ur views on this mail


Let donkey ( CEO) work for you and carry ur load and yet give master what he would have
 never got without this donkey.....learning to share .......and reaching top ....and making  dreams 
reality.......share 5% mantra  ......( and get 95% otherwise unrealisable ) ..Alok

What they dont teach in Havard:
How to start branch after branch:
How to start another unit/ franchise/ agents/ brokers :
How to start encashing on idle / unutilised (normally ancestral property) strength/ resources/ 
property etc.:
How to get the work done:
How to make others dance to ur tune: ............one simple awnser ....SHARE  SHARE AND 
SHARE and ACT ACT & ACT IMMEDIATELY AS no one has seen tomorrow.

To,

My dear all,
Namaskar.

I m not competent to offer advise / or talk about modern corporate working (neither u 
have asked me to) but yet I want to share few things as seen by me:
 Negative side:
You shud have lots of guts, influence, fearlessness ( of law and god) , be non approachable 
( have PA’s, VP’s, whole time directors) , make govt officials in ministries , ministers etc ur 
shreholders and then:
1.Get bank loan
2.get huge pc of  land
3. Get licences in ziffi ( a poor cobbler will take few yrs to get his licence )
4. Get ( steal) water, power etc.
5. Break rules, evade excise, sales tax, Income tax etc etc

But finally bring co. to profit. Once there is a profit then fool investors, cheat brokers will 
ensure that ur scripts goes up and up.

Then plan another venture where there is a profit of above 150%. Hire one CEO. Put him to  
task. He fails then replace and he succeeds then go and put another industry.

Keep adding on and just look in to balance sheet of each industry on quarterly basis and 
that’s it . If  it is in red it is funeral of its CEO/ M.M., VP, and shareholders etc and if it brings 
profit then go ahead acquire another industry / project / ( govt is out to give all projects to
 handful of industrialists whether they have know how or experience or not) ( they in turn tie up
 with foreign companies by adding their cost ) ( if the project was given to directly to foreign
 good company then cost cud be 50% down). But then they may or may not be able to bribe 
as much as Indian cos wud by compromising with quality, delivery time, they will be able to
 revise quotation with the bribe several times and see the quality of project : santacruz east 
sky walk has several type of mismatching tile, they r slippery . so no consideration of beauty,
 grace has been kept and tiles r not anti skid so in monsoon, etc old, weak, women, children r
 slipping and falling. But on the other hand these industrialists r making house from 100 cr to
 1600 crore ( Ambani). They r in IPL, Horse race , foot Ball and every other thing. See the
 houses of ministers and bureaucrats which r shining like gold, forget tiles every other thing is 
in good taste, aesthetic, interiors of class but public projects r in dirty design and looks. And 
then lights in subways don’t work, their favourite voters from UP , Bihar keep spitting 
everywhere and no law is made to stop this infectious diseases spreading dirty habits.

So to sum up : U can make money : rise high : if u can pocket ministers , officers 
and fool investors.

The CEO : CEO thinks he is the boss but he is the slave of 24 hours of the company
 and is supposed to give results or be out.

Share holders: Lot of money will be syphoned out, but balance sheet will be attractive 
and further is 4 word advise by sms or email brokers will give So called advise ( tip) 
and u will invest blindly ( out of lust) and buy manipulated share.And keep them in locker
 and sleep.

Banks and land:   Not for poor, not for needy, but for those who can give rosy
 projects, make who’s who partner, can bribe they will get loans at lower rate 
and land for peanut price.

Licences: U will not get even death certificate for months without bribing and several visits, 
u will not get death body released form municipal morgue without money, u will not get to 
register FIR without hours of harassment and bribe , U will not get justice from Indian courts
 for decades, it took 6 months and 20000/- bribe for me to get one water connection of ½ ’’
 but these industrialists get biggest NOC’s , licences, permissions, connections  in seconds 
and on their table . How?? Their projects r operational in a year but a small man will run 
everywhere personally but no permission comes in hand for years . Why???

Because the Indian Industry runs on different theory which is not taught in Havard.

POSITIVE SIDE:

But then Kutchi Gujrati samaj has been following the above appoint CEO principle
 very successfully ( though most of their business runs successfully on tax evasion 
like grocery, electrical, hardware, food, clothing, garment , utensils, crockery, 
stationary, xerox, etc etc  where they never issue any bill , never sell any thing 
with proper price printed, quality assured but they thrive).
So coming back to their using appoint CEO feature: They have a very good 
network with in community. Community takes care of old, suffering, sick,
 students etc.. So their own people do not cheat the employer easily from 
own community. When some one is running a business of retail nature then
 normally they r not able to expand easily as they r stuck up on their own cash
 counter and controlling staff and stocks . But when a kutchi is running one  
business successfully then he does not stop there. He picks up one of his
 good own community staff and makes him a working partner and starts another 
shop. And then next and then next. So I have seen Kutchis and to some extent 
godvalia marwaris and shettys in hotel industry grow faster then others as they
 open new out lets / branches depending on working partner which in new
 management we call CEO. Is in’t it a fine and useful  idea. But u shud have 
control over the working partner / CEO who shud not deceive and achieve
 in time frame ur objectives. Best thing in present environment is have clear 
cut black and white  MOU/ target/ profit sharing/ goals so nothing is left to 
chances, misinterpretation, feud, confusion etc.

Say there is a group of brothers with a family owned property. All may be 
busy in some other business activity and the precious piece of land may be 
lying neglected or may be gulped by land sharks or may one day go down 
the drain due to fight in 3rd / 4 rth generation on ancestral property with 
different objectives, aims , aspirations etc..
In such a case all busy co-owners can appoint a CEO with clear but wide 
powers and fixed responsibilities so in set period a ambitious project comes up. 
IF it works out then same efforts can be continued by making it a regular joint business.
 Or they can part with the fruits of the unutilised piece of land on which there r many eyes set.

But is is not easy for most. Not all want to share the profits and in turn loose 
what they can get out of untouched project themselves / opportunity lost is lost. 
But there r most people with the attitude that main karun bhi nahi and karne bhi 
nahi duuun ( nither I will do or I will let u / other co-owners do). Main kar bhi 
nahi sakta lekin mein karne bhi nahi dena chahta ( I know I have no time, no skill, 
no resources to do but yes I will also not let other person do). Such people wait for 
destiny and prey that apple should fall on  their lap/ jholi. Yes it may one day fall
 but if by chance u get a nap and others can take away that apple which was 
about to fall in ur jholi and for which u have been waiting for long. So the
 brilliant r those who employ CEO who risks his life and climbs the tree who 
plucks all the fruits, secures them , gives you as and when u want them and for 
all these services he expects a small share from ur orchid. It is up to u to decide 
whether u want to be without assured returns in ur own life time or u want to share
 the fruits and happiness of  success shared .

 
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,